When I was asked to photograph Laura's wedding, I quickly accepted. I pretty much thought it was the perfect opportunity to cross something off my 101 list and since part of me kinda hopes to be able to do something like this, I figured it was a nice way to see if I would be any good at it.
I didn't really think too much about it for quite some time. Then I got my new camera and I wasn't really thinking about the wedding as much as I was about learning different functions and stuff.
Then about a day or two before the wedding I started thinking about it and got a little nervous... I mean these were her WEDDING pictures. I didn't think she had quite the expectations I had... but still, this is the one thing you have left when it's all over. All the time, money, energy and thought put into your wedding and all you have left are the pictures.
Then not only was I concerned about the actual images not being good, but that some fluke technology mishap would occur and I'd lose all the images. I remember when I used to work at Genuardi's, some lady came in and as I do with all customers, I asked "Hi, How are you?" and she had some response about it being the worst day of her life or something... I didn't really press (how is one supposed to respond to that???) but she continued and said that she photographed a good friends wedding and there was a problem when she went to process the photos and she lost them all. HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU LOST ALL OF THEIR WEDDING IMAGES???
But anyway.
The night before the wedding I got everything together. I took both of my Nikons, my old-school film camera and my collection of lenses. I don't really have a camera bag big enough for all that, so I put it in one of my large purse style bags and took it from there. I realized through the day though that I was sticking mostly with my new camera. It had the most versatile lens and was rigged up with my external flash.
Laura was having her hair done early that day, so I told her I'd meet her at the hotel early to get some pictures of her getting her hair done and that gave me the chance to take my time getting pictures of some her the "details"
I thought that I'd get to the hotel hang out a little and then head home. But either way, I came dressed for the wedding. I'm actually glad I got ready, because I never made it home that day.
Before I knew it, the girls were getting their dresses on, I was meeting the guys to get some pictures of the groom with his groomsmen and then rushing back upstairs to get some shots of Laura getting ready.
This was taken when I still had a little light to work with in the lobby... not too bad. Perhaps the worst part is that the elevator shafts are exposed...
Then of course we were getting the notice that it was time for them to head to the lobby for the ceremony. The bridesmaids all went downstairs first and then, once the groom was in the chapel room, Laura was allowed to go down.
The BM's and mothers
not exactly the best light, but it had potential.
The night of the rehearsal my mom pointed out the glass elevator and said she thought it'd be perfect for some photos... I agreed.
I found the ceremony to be both easy and difficult to photograph. On one hand, it was great, because everyone stood in roughly the same spot allowing me to get a lot of shots at different angles, etc. But then at what point are you just annoying moving around while people are trying to focus...
Then of course, you can't just stop them mid-ceremony to repeat something - you take it as it's happening. Period.
For example... if you miss the first kiss, the exchanging of rings, the grooms look as the bride is walking down the aisle... etc. There's no getting those moments back.
When looking at other photogrpaher's work, I always like those natural moments... I tried to capture some... this one wasn't one of my favorite, but there were some during the 'special dances' that I really liked. 
Another challenge was the space. The room was nice, but you're stuck with trying to avoid Exit signs, doors, etc. 
The new Mr. and Mrs.
I took advantage of the elevator again as they were heading to their room.
Cocktail hour was another challenge. I had to get all of the formal pictures done during this time, but also needed to capture a few moments from the cocktail hours. On top of this, the fountain Laura wanted her formal pictures in from of was in the lobby with the cocktail hour. So, we were losing the wedding party in the crowd. Every picture I had to run off and find everyone. Finally, another issue was the lighting. During the afternoon, the light in the lobby was perfect. The ceiling of the building is mostly glass, letting in a lot of natural light. In the evening, you don't have the natural light, so I was trying to use just my flash for the photos and so some were white washed, others were too dark... and then people were blinking... I just feel like I could have done much better with a better flash/lighting situation...
One of my favorite ones in front of the fountain... Phillip and his Army guys...
... here are a few from cocktail hour....
This is Ryan's "father of the year" pose.
Some of Phillip's friends... I liked this picture.
I have much better ones from the cocktail hour... but this is Ryan and Bryan with their "I can't believe we're wearing the same suit" look.
After cocktail was dinner. They did their introductions of the wedding party, did the first dance and then after dinner they did the father/daughter dances, etc.
My niece Olivia
First Dance... they were much more serious than Ryan and I.
Another one I really like...
The actual reception was great. People danced and just in general everyone seemed to have such a good time. I had asked Laura what type of pictures were really important to her and she said she really wanted one of her and our grandfather... I got a few of those. In addition she wanted pictures of people dancing: check. After I felt like I had covered everything and all of the special events were over and people were getting tipsy, I made the decision to put the camera away (after all, most people only get their photographer for a small portion of the wedding before they leave...). However, I kept pulling it out through the night to get shots of different moments.
Here's one picture in "natural"
Here's one in "more vivid" - this one def. has a sharper feel... IMO.
Bryan and Katy adopted Ryan for the part of the night since he didn't have me... and of course Jude had his share of mommom and poppop time...
All in all it was a great time. I feel like I did a fairly good job - but of course I'm no professional.
I really feel like I need to work on flash photography and how to get the best angle, etc. in such a dark setting. I've actually been doing some research to find ways to avoid pictures being too dark or too light. There are so many factors such as flash distance, angle, diffusing, aperture, shutter speed, etc. that according to everything I read it's all about practice, practice, practice.
Then of course there's post production. I don't have a photo processing system and so the raw images are what I have... unlike some more pricey companies, I don't have the benefit of photo shop to make my pictures better - but I'm fine with that.
All in all, it was a great day! The weather was wonderful and the friends were just as lovely.
